Soaking Up Dad

SpongeBob

I figured out why they called that children's character SpongeBob. Because our kids are nothing if not sponges. And they soak up a lot. I've ranted about this before, but I happened to observe something this week that made me want to pick up my … [Read more...]

If You’re a Friend, Try Being a Good Friend

Don't get me wrong. I'm not implying you're not a good friend. You're probably a great friend. Before I start ranting, I should be very clear about something. This isn't about my friends. My wife and I have wonderful friends. We have much to be … [Read more...]

Another Brick in the Wall (Give Your Kids a Break)

Hey, teacher - leave those kids alone! Maybe the same could be said for some parents too. As always, my disclaimer here is that I'm not anywhere near a perfect parent myself. But I recently witnessed something that inspired this post. I was … [Read more...]

What’s Your Little World’s Population?

This probably isn't what you're expecting from the title. I recently heard a song that triggered this post. I've been thinking about this for a while, but the song really was the final straw. I'd love to think of us as a world that works together. … [Read more...]

Don’t Underestimate Your Role, Dad

Given the opportunity, kids will raise themselves. This was me, holding my son, Andon, who was just days old.  I think this picture can represent the enormous responsibility we have as dads. But it also speaks to the enormity of the gift and … [Read more...]

Pool Etiquette

Marco!  Polo!  So, it turns out that this is a game that's not nearly as fun by yourself. Having spent a solid portion of our Christmas break in and around pools and hot springs, I felt it was necessary, based on the situations and behaviours … [Read more...]

What I have learned as a husband – Part 2

In the first part (check it out here), I shared some lessons about what I've learned since becoming a husband. There's plenty more where that came from, but this won't be a super long post. This second part of the post is harder to share, because … [Read more...]

The Don’ts of Airline Travel

Since I've flown four times in the last week, I feel highly qualified to comment on the do's (or more specifically, the don'ts) of airline travel.   No, I'm not an accredited globetrotter, but I've spent enough time in close quarters … [Read more...]

How Do You Love Your Loved One?

couple

I'm hoping it's the way they deserve to be loved. I recently read a quote that made me realize I have to say this, and say it LOUD. I want to ask you a personal question:  how do you treat the love of your life?  The person that is your … [Read more...]

The “S” word – the nasty one

sorry

I don't get why this word seems to be one of the hardest words to utter in our language.  I'm guessing that all the other languages in the world have a similarly difficult syntax around this word, because fitting it into any sentence seems to be an … [Read more...]