What I’ve Learned From My Kids

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At one point, I knew I was the smartest person in the world. I knew more than anyone else, especially my parents. I was about 14. It was at that time that I also decided I never wanted kids. It’s funny to see how much I’ve learned since then. … [Read more...]

Heart = Melted

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Some days, it seems as though the clouds can't get any darker. It seems as though everything we try, everything we pour our time and love into - it's all for nothing. It truly seems hopeless once in a while. I've seen that a collection of these … [Read more...]

If You’re a Friend, Try Being a Good Friend

Don't get me wrong. I'm not implying you're not a good friend. You're probably a great friend. Before I start ranting, I should be very clear about something. This isn't about my friends. My wife and I have wonderful friends. We have much to be … [Read more...]

Don’t Underestimate Your Role, Dad

Given the opportunity, kids will raise themselves. This was me, holding my son, Andon, who was just days old.  I think this picture can represent the enormous responsibility we have as dads. But it also speaks to the enormity of the gift and … [Read more...]

How Do You Love Your Loved One?

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I'm hoping it's the way they deserve to be loved. I recently read a quote that made me realize I have to say this, and say it LOUD. I want to ask you a personal question:  how do you treat the love of your life?  The person that is your … [Read more...]

What makes a best friend

I have a best friend.  I suppose I have two.  My wife is truly my best friend and I'll more than likely elaborate on that here some day.  She is closer to me than anyone else in the world.  But that's not what's weighing on me today.  Today, I … [Read more...]

I miss my Dad

I've told people this story - and I have a lot of friends that know it just from being part of my life.  But I've never spent the time to put my thoughts down on paper, or on screen, about this. In September 1992, when I was 18, we learned that my … [Read more...]